Oh -- I've never been to Ikea, and I'd HATE it. I went to a candle party yesterday and boy, did I feel uncomfortable. There were women there saying things like, "This color would go so well in my dining room." -- Even beyond the fact that living as I do in a split-level, the dining room's the same colors as the whole rest of the upstairs. Usually I feel lots more girly than most slashers . . . but compared to these women, I was WAY on the other side of the gender gap. :(